ElderCare Planning

Elder Care Planning: Is It Time to Start?

 The truth is, we all will think about retirement planning – we all want to retire someday to enjoy the fruits of our working life labor.  We plan for where we will live, what we will do with all of our free time, and how we will pay for all of those things as we enjoy our non-working years.  What we don’t often plan for, or even want to think about, are those things that we don’t plan for – things like health care issues or the need for change in living arrangements that may happen as we age.  There is a need to plan for this part of retirement, as well.

How do you know if you have planned well for ALL of your retirement; that you have planned for the “what-ifs” to help ensure that your future retirement – all of it – remains on track and can be successful?  You might consider starting with our Future Care Strategies Checklist. By taking 5 minutes to consider issues relating to your estate planning, financial planning and future care preferences and plans, you can determine if there are additional areas that need to be addressed in your future retirement planning. 

We believe that it is important for all individuals to have as much control over their lives – for their whole lives – as possible.  Work with your financial planner to make sure that all of your future planning needs – not just the financial aspects – are in place before a crisis occurs.  Take a few minutes today to make sure that your planning is complete.

This is the first in a monthly post (2nd Thursday of each month) that will address Elder Care planning topics.  If you have a specific question or issue you’d like addressed, please contact me at Sandy.Adams@CenterFinPlan.com.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

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Holiday Financial Conversations for the Generations: Older Adult Parents

 The holidays provide us with rare opportunities to gather with family.  This is a time to check in with older adult parents to see how things are going and to see what might be changing.   Often, we will notice that time (and/or age) are beginning to make everyday life a little more challenging for our parents.  This is the perfect time to ask your parents about their plans for their future.

Things to discuss with your parents may include:

If having these conversations makes you feel uneasy, you are not alone.   However, giving your parents the opportunity to express their desires and helping them to put an actual plan in place to make their plans a reality is an invaluable gift.  And what better time than the holidays to give that gift?

Contact your financial planner for tips on holding these conversations or to schedule a family planning meeting.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

Top 3 Elder Care Planning Mistakes -- #3

 So, you’ve designed a plan to address the challenges you may face as you age.  You’ve taken action to put the plan into place.  So, all of your bases are covered…right? One last step is needed to complete the Elder Care Planning process...

Mistake #3 – Failure to COMMUNICATE! 

To who, you ask?  First and foremost, you should communicate your plan to your family and/or other important people in your life who might play a part in making sure the plan is put into place as designed.  If those who might help support you in the future aren’t aware of your desires and of the legal, financial and care plans you have put into place, all might be for naught!  Additionally, you should communicate your Elder Care plan to your professional partners…your financial planner, your attorney, your CPA and/or any other important professional advisor who might play a part.  It is important for all of these team members to know the game plan to help ensure that your future Elder Care plan will be a success.

If you would like to discuss Elder Care Planning for your future, feel free to contact me at Sandy.Adams@CenterFinPlan.com.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.

Top 3 Elder Care Planning Mistakes -- #2

 

In my previous post, I referenced the top Elder Care Planning Mistake – Failure to Plan.   Once you have remedied this mistake and have actually completed your planning, what might be your next mistake?

Mistake #2 – Failure to Implement

Failure to implement is not just an Elder Care Planning mistake – it is a mistake that comes with many types of planning.  You have put in the work to address your planning strategies and you have worked with your financial planner, attorney, care professional and others to lay out a detailed plan.  Then what?  Many find a nice place to store the written plan and documents, and set it aside, assuming that everything is set for the future.  WRONG!!

Just because the plan is in writing doesn’t necessarily mean you’re covered.  If you have drafted legal documents, there is very likely action needed to implement the legal plan. This action may involve making titling changes on property and investment accounts, updating beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and insurances, or even shifting assets from one account to another. If you have a financial plan to address future Elder Care issues, this often means acting on the plan and meeting with your financial planner at least annually to make sure that you remain on track.    Acting on the plan and implementing the plan is as important as making the plan in the first place.

Click here for Elder Care Planning Mistake #3.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.

Top 3 Elder Care Planning Mistakes -- #1

 

In my previous post, I explained Elder Care planning – what it is and when you should consider this planning.  Those tips helped you prepare, but there are also some pitfalls in planning you need to avoid. Here is the first of a 3-part series on the top Elder Care Planning mistakes.

Mistake #1 – Failure to Plan

Most people like to envision leading a healthy, happy retirement and doing all of the things they enjoy until the day they pass away.  In reality, later years of retirement are often clouded with the need for changes in lifestyle as physical and cognitive abilities slow down.  The fact that we are living longer makes these future changes even more possible.

The biggest mistake you can make is failing to plan for Elder Care. To avoid this mistake, first tackle this questionnaire that will help you to identify areas of planning that need to be addressed. Elder Care planning is much more than planning for the actual care for future ailments.

Elder Care planning encompasses a full range of topics including:

  • Your future life – how you envision living it, with or without physical or cognitive challenges
  • Your money – how you plan to use it in the future
  • Your home – your current home or something different
  • Your property – your stuff and how you want it handled and disbursed
  • Your care – who will provide it, when and where
  • Your legacy – your financial legacy, as well as your values-oriented legacy

Click HERE for specific things to consider and questions to answer when planning for each facet of your life.

3 key areas to address as you consider how to plan for each of these topics:

  • Challenges you may face
  • Alternatives that you might consider if you can’t live your ideal life
  • Resources that you will have available to you, now and in the future

Planning for your future is the best way for you to remain in control and have the future life you desire, no matter what the circumstances might be.  Is now the right time for you or someone you love to start planning?  Contact your financial planner and start today!

Click here for Elder Care Planning Mistake #2.

Click here for Elder Care Planning Mistake #3.

 

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.

What is Elder Care Planning?

 What do you think of when you hear the term Elder Care?  For most, the term springs to mind thoughts of care for older adults who are in need of assistance…at home care or care in some type of assisted living or other care facility.  In reality, Elder Care encompasses a much broader spectrum of planning issues for older adults, including legal and financial planning in addition to traditional care and assistance.

Individuals work with their financial planners to plan for retirement.  To most, this means making sure that they have enough income and savings to maintain their lifestyles after their work lives are over.  This can mean traveling, pursuing hobbies and spending time with family that was not possible during working years.  What most people fail to plan for are later years of retirement that might involve health and or cognitive issues that can cause changes in lifestyle and expense. 

It is never too early to start planning for these later life issues.  It is never too early to think about the challenges you might have as you age and your preference for how to address those challenges, should they occur.  Many people, however, delay this type of planning not wishing to think about what might happen in later life.

How do you know if it is time for you to talk to your financial planner about Elder Care Planning?  Answering these few simple questions can help you decide if you need to start planning.  If you can answer YES to all of the questions on this checklist, congratulations…you’ve planned well.  If you answer NO or NOT SURE to any of the questions, it might be time to talk to your financial planner and start planning now.  

In my upcoming blogs I’ll walk you through some of the top Elder Care Planning mistakes.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.  You should discuss any legal matters with the appropriate professional.

Why is 2020 So Significant to Boomers and Their Children?

 We’re not talking about 20/20 the news program, or about your vision.  We’re talking about the startling statistic released by the Alzheimer’s Association that by the year 2020, there will be 20 million baby boomers with Alzheimer’s disease.  In case you’re counting, that will be nearly 1 out of every 3 baby boomers that have Alzheimer’s or a related dementia.  The cost of care will be a huge concern for these boomers and their families (according to AARP, the current average cost to care for someone with Alzheimer’s is $56,800 annually), among the many issues that will arise.

If you are a boomer, here are the top 3 things you can do to prepare for this risk:

  1. Put Together a Team of Professionals – Start with a Certified Financial Planner™, who can help you plan ahead for the financial risks.  This will involve simplifying accounts, managing your assets, and helping you plan for your financial future with your personal preferences in mind.  Your financial planner will help you to put together a team of the additional professionals you may need and will bring on additional team members, as needed, along the way.
  2. Make Sure Your Legal Documents are Up-To-Date – We are talking here about your wills, possibly a trust, but most importantly Durable Powers of Attorney.  All individuals should have two durable powers of attorney – one for Health Care and the other for General/Financial affairs.  These Powers of Attorney will be invaluable if you ever need someone to make health care or financial decisions when you are unable to make them yourself. 
  3. Get Your Financial Life in Order and Document – Not only is it a good practice to take inventory of what you have and where it is, but it is also (and equally) important to document these items and indicate where and who to contact if there are questions.  Documenting investment accounts, insurance policies, legal documents, former employer benefits, etc., will be invaluable to family members or close friends who may need to assist you with your financial affairs in the future.  Click Here for our Personal Record Keeping document that can serve as a guideline for this purpose.

While an Alzheimer’s diagnosis is not something any of us want to think about, it is better to plan ahead so that your financial life will be handled as you intend, rather than leaving the burden of making those decisions to your family when you might not be able to communicate your wishes. 

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing information is accurate or complete.  Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.  You should discuss any tax or legal matters with the appropriate professional.

Parents and Children Misaligned on Finances

 As the mother of a teen and a pre-teen, I can testify that parents and children often speak different languages. Like when my daughter says "I'm going to die," it doesn't generally mean she's seriously ill; it more likely means she got a hole in her favorite pants! I live for the promise of the day when my children are grown and we will be able to communicate on the same plane.  After reading the recent Intra-Family Generations Study conducted by Fidelity Investments, I’m not so sure that will ever happen…at least when it comes to finances.

The Intra Family Generations Study found that parents and their adult children are on different pages when it comes to several key family financial issues, including retirement planning, inheritance planning, and caring for elderly parents.  The study found that 97% of parents and children surveyed disagreed on whether adult children will care for their elderly parents if they need long term care assistance.  Children tend to overestimate the value of their parents’ assets (by an average of $100,000 or more) and parents are overly critical of their children’s financial decisions.  In addition, while 24% of adult children surveyed say they will need to help their parents in retirement, 97% of parents say they won’t need help.  Clearly, there are misunderstandings between the generations.

So why, you might ask, are adult children and parents so disconnected?  According to the study, (which I can vouch for in my personal experience) families simply don’t talk about financial issues.  Talking about things like investments, debts, savings shortfalls, income taxes, or estate planning is taboo in many families. 

Most interestingly, the study did find that 60% of adult children and 68% of parents indicated that they would be more comfortable discussing these important financial issues with a third party financial professional than with each other.  Financial planners are the ideal financial professionals to lead productive family meetings.

If you find yourself as either a parent who has not discussed future financial issues with your adult children or as an adult child who has not discussed long term care or financial issues with your parent, contact your financial planner to schedule your family meeting today.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

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Give a Gift to Your Family This Holiday Season: Document Your Five Wishes

 For most of us, referring to our “five wishes” during the holiday season means naming the top five items on our gift list or your five wishes for the coming New Year.  The five wishes I’m talking about here is something quite different, but in the end, much more valuable.

Five Wishes is a document that assists individuals and families discuss and document preferences for end of life care.  It is a personal living will that goes beyond the basics to give individuals the opportunity to express their wishes, and thus ease the burden of loved ones who may be left to make critical questions during stressful times.  The document, written by Aging with Dignity, is easily navigated to help communicate the following:

  • Who do you want to make decisions about your care when you can’t?  
  • What kind of care do you want and/or what kind of care would you refuse? 
  • How do you want to be kept comfortable?
  • How do you want people to treat you?
  • What specific information do you want your family to know?

This document can be considered a legal document in Michigan and 41 other states if it is signed and witnessed*.  If you already have an up-to-date Patient Advocate/Health Care Durable Power of Attorney document in place, Five Wishes can still be valuable as a way to communicate your wishes for your end of life care to others. 

Consider using Five Wishes to structure your conversations this holiday season as you hold the family meeting I recommended in my recent post.  And while you’re at it, share you wishes for 2013 with your family, as well!

*Five Wishes meets the legal requirements for an advance directive in Michigan. Just like in 41 other states, you can use Five Wishes in Michigan to express how you want to be treated if you are seriously ill and unable to speak for yourself, using a document that is easy to understand. All you need to do is check a box, circle a direction, or write a few sentences. Once it is signed and witnessed, your Five Wishes is a legal document. Additionally, the state of Michigan requires your health care agent to sign a Patient Advocate Acceptance Form. The people you name in Wish 1 of Five Wishes must sign this form before they begin making decisions for you. This form is not included in Five Wishes because you are not required to complete the acceptance form at the same time. It is offered here as a helpful resource.  Five Wishes can be found at www.agingwithdignity.org.

Michigan Patient Advocate Acceptance Form

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Lead Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.

November is National Caregivers Month

 November is a month of gratitude.  We celebrate Thanksgiving Day and express our appreciation for the good things in our life.  What better time to say an extra “thanks” to the caregivers in our lives?

According to the National Caregivers Association, over 65 million Americans – approximately 29% of the U.S. population – provide care for chronically ill, disabled or aged family members or friends during any given year.  Family caregivers provide an average of 20 hours of care per week.  Over 66% of these caregivers are women, and 37% also have children or grandchildren under the age of 18 living with them.  What, you might ask, does this have to do with financial planning?

The reality is that the value of the services provided by family caregivers in the U.S. is estimated to be upwards of $375 billion each year.  Most of these caregivers receive little to no compensation for the services they provide.  Providing caregiver services to friends and family can create a drain on family funds, as these caregivers must often leave their jobs or significantly reduce their hours.  This, in turn, drains savings and delays retirements.

Action steps can be taken to protect the financial well-being of these valuable caregivers:

  • Have a family plan in place for providing care.  My recent blog on holding a family meeting is a good guide for starting this conversation. 
  • Coordinate family resources.  This involves sharing responsibilities among family members (even those living at a distance) so that no one member is overburdened.
  • Put financial resources in place to cover potential long term care expenses.  This includes purchasing long-term care insurance or alternative self-funding strategies so that care can be paid for (this includes providing possible compensation for family caregivers).

One of the best ways to say “thank you” to current or future caregivers in your life is to plan.  Contact your financial planner to provide assistance with family meetings, coordination of resources, or long-term care funding.


The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete.  Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily of RJFS or Raymond James.