ElderCare Planning

Managing our Minds as We Age

Contributed by: Matthew E. Chope, CFP® Matt Chope

I recently read an article about cognitive decline as we age.  The article shocked me and made me realize why a strong partnership with a good financial planner can be absolutely vital as we get older.  The research article by Michael Finke, John Howe, and Sandra Huston called “Old Age and the Decline in Financial Literacy” describes the situation well. The authors provided a financial literacy test to older populations and found that while financial literacy tends to decline by about 1% per year after age sixty, financial confidence remains the same.  The chart below illustrates this dangerous paradox:

Source: retriementresearcher.com, August 4, 2017

Source: retriementresearcher.com, August 4, 2017

One of our most important responsibilities as financial planners is to make sure that our clients are thoughtful about their financial decisions.  We consider ourselves managers of risk even more than managers of return, especially for our older clients.  This is paramount in what we do because many clients are focused more on matters of living – health, family, etc. – than on diving into the details of their investments or retirement cash flow in order to know their best path forward. 

As I was reading the article about the average confidence vs. literacy I was stunned at the widening differential gap between financial literacy and financial confidence. The gap at age 70 was 15% but widened to over 40% by age 80! This gap is where people become permanently financially damaged by poor decisions.  Most of the work we do is focused on helping reduce the probability of poor decisions.  It’s akin to the doctors Hippocratic Oath, “first do no harm”.  Our goal is not to make people rich, but to structure a solid foundation to ensure our clients never become destitute.

Here are some questions to consider:

  • Do you have the time, energy, interest, knowledge, and desire to implement all kinds of financial decisions on your own? Do you enjoy financial planning?

  • Will you overcome the inertia of inaction to put together all the various pieces needed to create and implement an effective and coherent overall plan?

  • Will you continue to periodically update your plan?

  • Have you determined how to make sure your planning will be maintained properly if other family members need to take control of it?

  • Are you working with a financial planner who does more than just manage investment portfolios – who helps you with all aspects of your financial picture -- and helps you to implement suitable financial planning decisions?

If the answer to any of these questions is “I’m not sure” or “no,” please reach out to a Certified Financial Planner™ professional to discuss how they can help.

Matthew E. Chope, CFP ® is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Matt has been quoted in various investment professional newspapers and magazines. He is active in the community and his profession and helps local corporations and nonprofits in the areas of strategic planning and money and business management decisions.


The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete. Any opinions are those of Matt Chope and not necessarily those of Raymond James. There is no guarantee that these statements, opinions or forecasts provided herein will prove to be correct. Investing involves risk and you may incur a profit or loss regardless of strategy selected. Prior to making an investment decision, please consult with your financial advisor about your individual situation.
Source: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=1948627

The Importance of Being Involved In Your Parents’ Financial Planning in Later Life

There are a million reasons why we don’t talk to our parents about their financial situation…

  • “I don’t want to be nosy.  What if I offend them by asking them about something so personal?”

  • “What if they think I am asking because I don’t think they can handle their finances any longer?”

  • “I have my own problems to deal with. I am not going to bother trying to handle my parents’ issues, too.”

  • “I don’t need to know anything until they tell me, or until they’re gone.”

  • And, the list goes on and on. 

And some of our parents may have their own hesitations about offering information to their adult children:  fear of loss of control, not wanting their children to be aware of all of their financial resources for fear that they will want/need more from them before they are able to give it, or simply discomfort with the conversations that may be involved about their own longevity and/or mortality.  However, in my experience, the majority of older adult clients are more than willing to begin to invite adult children, (at least those that are will be in charge of assisting with financial affairs in the case of incapacity or after death), into meetings to help them get a better understanding of the overall financial and estate planning picture.  We strongly encourage this with our clients and their adult children!

Some of the strongest and most successful family relationships we have are with generations of families that take advantage of these kinds of meetings.  Not only do they give us an opportunity to meet the family members that we will be working with if and when anything ever happens to mom and dad, but a number of additional items are uncovered during the annual meetings that can be extremely beneficial for the families:

  • They can develop a strong understanding of the overall financial status and financial plan

  • They have conversations about long term care planning, and reveal mom and dad’s preferences on how the finances fit into the plan

  • They have conversations about the overall estate plan and structure (who will be in charge, the flow of the estate, etc.)

  • They have conversations about charitable giving and its importance during life and after death

  • They have conversations about how they wish their assets to be passed on to future generations (how, why, etc.)

It has been an amazing experience for many of our families, some of whom have grown so much closer through the experience.  If you have older adult parents and have hesitated to get involved or been afraid to approach the subject and need help getting started, please reach out.  We are happy to help!  We promise it will be worth the effort.

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Any opinions are those of Sandra D. Adams and not necessarily those of Raymond James. Every investor's situation is unique and you should consider your investment goals, risk tolerance and time horizon before making any investment. Prior to making an investment decision, please consult with your financial advisor about your individual situation.

Financial Scams Target Social Security and Medicare

According to the Federal Trade Commission, of the 65 and older population, over 33% are victims of financial frauds and scams on an annual basis. It is not surprising, then, that the latest scams to come out are related to Social Security and Medicare – two of the most widely used social support programs by the 65 and older population. Here is what you need to know about the newest scams:

Social Security:

There are two Social Security scams on the current watch list:

  • The first one is where you will receive an official-looking e-mail from the Social Security Administration with an invitation to create a Social Security account so that you can receive your benefits. You land on a webpage where the scammers hope you will fill out your confidential information. DO NOT FALL FOR THIS. Never click on links in any of these e-mails. If you want to sign up for a Social Security Account, go directly to https://ssa.gov/myaccount/ (see our blog with detailed instructions about how to set up your Social Security account here).

  • The second one is where the scammers actually create an account for someone and redirect their payments to a bank account controlled by them, not by the victim. To prevent this from happening, create your own MySSA account with a strong username and password. This is similar to filing your tax return early before the scammers file a fake return and steal your refund. In addition, a recommended and increased security measure is that when you create your MySSA account, go to the settings and choose the option that any changes to the bank account into which your check is electronically deposited can only be done in person at a Social Security brank office and not done using your online account.

Medicare:

This scam is related to Congress’ passage of the Medicare Access and CHIP Reauthorization ACT (MACRA) in 2015 which is requiring the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services to remove Social Security numbers from all Medicare cards. Thus, they will begin reissuing Medicare cards in 2018. The current scam has scammers calling Medicare beneficiaries claiming to be Medicare and saying that they must confirm their current Medicare numbers before sending them a new card. Others call saying there is a charge for the new card and are collecting beneficiaries’ personal information. Please note that there is no charge for your new card and Medicare will never call you for your information. They already have it. 

As an additional note, there are still tax scams continuing to occur. We wrote a blog about tax season scams earlier this year -- please take a moment to review this information to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Always Remember:

  • A government agency will not contact you by phone or e-mail to request personal information or to demand money/payment from you.

  • You will always be contacted by mail or registered letter by government agencies and if money is owed, you will be given an opportunity to dispute charges.

If you suspect fraud related to these examples or any other type of financial scams or fraud, please contact the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging Fraud Hotline at 1-855-303-9470 or contact your financial planner for assistance.


Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.

Guidance for Caregivers

Our experience with clients at The Center has shown us that caregivers come in all shapes, sizes, ages, and circumstances...no one is like another. What we do know, however, is that being a caregiver to someone needing assistance for a physical or mental incapacity of some kind is no “walk in the park,” as they say. According to AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving, there are some 40 million Americans acting as unpaid caregivers in the United States – helping parents, grandparents, spouses, relatives and neighbors with basic needs – often while working, parenting, or both. Suffice it to say, caregivers themselves experience advances levels of physical, emotional, and often financial stress as a result of their caregiving responsibilities.

What can caregivers do to help those their caring for AND help themselves?

  1. Understand the financial and legal situation of the person you are caring for. Understand what the financial resources are, what legal documents are in place (and where they are), and who the powers of attorney, Trustees, and important advisors are in the relationship. Knowing who is involved in helping make important decisions will be key going forward, and knowing where important documents are is invaluable (to help get this organized, find our Personal Record Keeping Document and Letter of Last Instruction document here).

  2. Have conversations in advance about how the person wants to be cared for. Knowing (before it’s too late) what kind of care is desired, where that care should take place, and who should perform that care, as well as other end-of-life conversations, are important talks to have. These conversations, if had earlier rather than later, can help you avoid conflicts with the person your caring for and with others (particularly if you document the results!).

  3. Ask for help! There is absolutely no shame in calling uncle if you feel like you need assistance for any number of reasons:

    • Maybe you feel like you need training for some kind of caregiving you are providing that you don’t feel prepared to give

    • Maybe you are just overwhelmed and need additional help – from another family member or friend, a community resource, or from a paid resource – there is help out there – ASK FOR IT!

    • Maybe you just need a break – there are respite services available to take your loved one for a few days to care for them to give you a few days off, even if you have no one else to take over the caregiving duties; this might be just what you need to rejuvenate you and to help get you back on your feet!

We understand that being a caregiver for someone you love can pause your personal goals and plans. Our job is to help you prevent the caregiving role from permanently halting your goals and plans due to overwhelming stress. Let me be a resource when it comes to planning for and managing your caregiving role – if there is anything I can do to help, contact me at Sandy.Adams@CenterFinPlan.com.

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete. Any opinions are those of Sandy Adams, CFP®, and not necessarily those of Raymond James.

What Help Do Aging Parents Want from Their Adult Children?

The topic comes up often with our baby boomer clients: “Mom and Dad are getting older and they seem to need more help. We’re not sure how much is too much to get involved.” Adult children have the best of intentions of providing assistance to their adult parents without invading their privacy, but it is fine line to walk. A study conducted by public-health professor Mary Gallant and sociologist Glenna Spitze from the State University of New York at Albany in 2004 explored the very issue of what aging parents really want from their adult children. Their research team conducted actual interviews with focus groups of older adults and this is what they found:

  • Aging parents who live independently wish for both connection and autonomy in relation to their adult children; most did not feel a need for assistance from their children.

  • Most seniors desire control over their lives; at the same time, they want their children to intervene and offer help, if they express a need for assistance.

  • Aging parents, while they may express some resistance to help offered by their adult children, do appreciate the help they are providing.

  • Aging parents want to be treated as normal adults, not as incompetent individuals.

  • Adult children need to understand that their aging parents my use a variety of strategies to deal with their ambivalent feelings toward receiving help; such as minimizing the help, or ignoring or resisting their children’s attempts to control situations.

It is important to remember that as your parents may need more assistance over time, it is still most important to let them lead the decisions that guide their lives as they age for as long as possible. So, unless there is an immediate threat to your parent’s health or wellness, it is best to allow them to be in control of their own decisions, while providing support as needed.

Here are just a few helpful hints when it comes to communicating with your older adult parent:

  • Show respect. Always speak to your parent with respect; it will go a long way toward getting your point across.

  • Don’t sweat the small stuff.  Let your parents do as much as they can and don’t make a big deal over small issues. Unless it is a threat to their health, safety or finances…let it go!

  • Make suggestions instead of giving orders. Just like with your teenagers, asking questions about how they feel about something and about what they might need and allowing them to come to their own conclusions often work better than giving orders. Giving orders makes your parents feel like they are the children and like they are no longer in control.

  • If you think your parents can still do something, let them do it: It is like the old adage – if you don’t use it, you’ll lose it. However, if you think they are not capable or could be harmed by doing something on their own, don’t feel guilty by stepping in and stopping them!

  • Stop and think before you respond. If your aging parent spouts off and says something hurtful, stop and think before you respond; saying something mean in return will only make both of you feel worse!

  • Think about how you would want to be treated. After all…you will be the aging parent one day!

Maintaining strong family relationships is something we all strive for, and it becomes more challenging when we are put in a position of needing to provide assistance for our aging parents. If you or anyone you know needs assistance in this area, please let us know.  We are always happy to help!

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


This information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that it is accurate or complete. Opinions expressed are those of Sandra Adams and are not necessarily those of Raymond James.

The Responsibility of Handling Other People’s Money

More and more often as we meet with clients, a recurring topic of conversation is the responsibility of handling the financial affairs of others. Whether that’s for an older adult parent or relative, or whether it’s the handing off of that responsibility to a son, daughter, friend, or other trusted party that concerns our older adult client. As the population continues to age, there is a growing need for older adults to plan for the shift of the responsibility of handling their financial affairs, either now or in the future, to someone else for a variety of reasons—medical, dementia or other incapacity issue, or simply the desire not to have to handle one’s own day-to-day financial affairs.

It is important to be aware that there are a number of roles that you might be assigned to in order to handle the financial life of an older adult; and it is important that these be planned for in advance to avoid potential conflicts in the future:

  • Social Security Representative Payee – The Social Security Administration allows for a representative payee to be assigned in the case that there is an incapacitated recipient of Social Security (family or friends of the recipient that must be 18 years or older).

  • Long Term Care Insurance Lapse Provision Designee – Someone assigned to receive notices in the case that long term care insurance premiums are not paid on a long term care insurance policy. The designee has the responsibility of making sure the premiums get paid until the insured needs to go on claim.

  • Agent for Funeral Decisions – Some states (now including Michigan) permit the appointment of an agent to manage the funeral arrangements for a person, which can be separate from the Executor of the Will.

  • Power of Attorney – General Power of Attorney for General/Financial Decisions allows the power to handle bill paying, banking, investments, IRA and other distributions, and any other financial decisions on the person’s behalf, serving as their financial fiduciary (and making decisions based on their best interests).

As the Power of Attorney, use the resources you have available to you:

  • The professional team – the client’s Financial Planner, CPA, attorney, physician, etc.

  • The client’s Personal Record Keeping Document and Letter of Last Instruction, if they have one.

  • The client’s Financial Plan and history with their planner – this will tell a story about how they have lived their financial life and their historical patterns (especially helpful if you are assisting someone who has developed dementia or cognitive impairment). It’s helpful to begin to attend meetings with the client and their financial adviser, if the client is comfortable, as soon as you know there is an issue and if you know you will be involved in assisting the client now or in the future.

Planning ahead for your involvement in handling money for an older adult is always suggested, so that you can get familiar with the client’s situation, the team members involved, and the resources available. Being a financial fiduciary is a big responsibility, one that you don’t want to take lightly or push off until the last minute to tackle. Contact your planner or myself, at Sandy.Adams@CenterFinPlan, if we can be of assistance in handling these or other Long Life Planning matters.

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. and its advisors do not provide advice on tax or legal issues, these matters should be discussed with the appropriate professional.

Preparing for Aging: Baby Boomers vs. Generation X

In our day-to-day work with clients, Baby Boomer and Generation X clients, assist their parents and sometimes grandparents (those in the “Silent Generation,” born in the mid-1920s to early 1940s) plan for their aging years. But are those “children” planning for their own aging years? Are they learning any lessons from watching family members age? Who is planning better at preparing for aging – Baby Boomers or Generation X?

As it turns out, neither generation is as prepared as they should be, but Generation X is actually LESS prepared for aging than the Baby Boom generation. Why is that?

  • Generation X has more debt (student loan debt, credit card debt, etc.), which caused them to start saving later.

  • Generation X has less access to pensions and feels less secure in their promised future Social Security benefits.

  • Generation X is even more of a “sandwich generation” than the Baby Boomers. Call it a club sandwich with multi layers: Generation Xers can be stuck in the middle of supporting grandparents, parents, children, and grandchildren all at the same time all while trying to hold down a job and going back to school to get additional education or credentials. Wonder why we can’t pay attention to our own health and well-being? (Yes, I am a Generation Xer!!)

  • In addition to having no time to visit physicians and do the routine self-care that should be done due to the multi-levels of our responsibilities, recent studies by MDVIP, Inc. (WHSV 2014) indicate that this generation is also afraid of receiving bad news, which also deters them from visiting the doctor (which of course, may prevent getting information on conditions early, when they could be treated).

With each generation, we anticipate that life expectancy assumptions get a little bit longer if only for improvements in health care and technology. Therefore, each generation needs to be even more prepared, financially, physically, psychologically and otherwise for a longer life that may occur. Both the Boomers and the Generation Xers have a lot of work cut out for them if they want to be prepared!

If you feel that you are behind in your plan for aging and need some assistance, we can help! If you’re in Generation X, take the time to view our webinar dedicated to planning for your retirement. If you have any questions, free to reach out to me at Sandy.Adams@centerfinplan.com.

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


This information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that this material is accurate or complete. Opinions expressed are those of Sandy Adams and are not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.

Alzheimer’s and Dementia: Support for Caregivers

For the last several years, I have had the distinct pleasure of serving on the planning committee for a unique conference put on jointly by the Alzheimer’s Association Greater Michigan Chapter and the Wayne State University Institute of Gerontology called “A Meaningful Life with Alzheimer’s Disease.” The conference is unique in that it is one of the only I have ever seen put on for both professionals and caregiver attendees; where those who professionally serve those with dementia and family caregivers of those with dementia can meet, interact, and listen to presenters who have wonderful information for all. This year’s conference was again a huge success, bringing over 300 attendees to hear presenters speak on behavior challenges, caregiver stories, and meditation.

Here at The Center, many of our clients are beginning to face the challenges of Alzheimer’s, dementia, and/or serving in the role as a caregiver for someone with the disease. One of our Center friends, Paula Duren, Ph.D., was one of the featured speakers at this year’s conference and spoke of her experience as a caregiver to both of her parents. Through her non-profit Universal Dementia (www.universaldementia.org), she runs lunch and learn sessions, trainings and support groups to help other caregivers in their journey. For example:

Her top tips for Caregiver Health are:

  • Adjust your expectations

  • Allow others to help

  • Increase your healthy behaviors

  • Take one day at a time

  • Maintain a positive mindset

  • Know that there is no one right way

The Alzheimer’s Association also has a number of support groups for both caregivers and those with early through mid-stage dementias (24/7 Helpline – 1-800-272-3900). Getting support from others going through similar experiences as you is very important for your psychological and emotional well-being. If you or someone you know is in need of additional resources, do not hesitate to reach out to me at sandy.adams@centerfinplan.com, I am always happy to help!

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


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Ten Tips for Aging Successfully

Longevity might just be one of the most important current topics in financial planning: how long will people live and how do financial planners help make sure their clients don’t run out of money before they run out of years? Ironically, many client conversations at The Center aren’t so much about will the money run out, but what will the money be spent on. Clients are concerned that the majority of their money will be spent on health and long term care expenses, and not the travel, leisure and meaningful family spending that they would prefer. What, clients ask, can they do to make sure that they can spend their money on the things they want to spend them on, not on those “costs of care?”

Before you start to think that this is a blog about Long Term Care insurance (that may be a blog for another day), think again!  This is where I tell you that I was recently asked to read the book “Live Long, Die Short – A Guide to Authentic Health and Successful Aging,” by Roger Landry, MD, MPH, for a Long Life Planning advisory group that I am on, and it helped me answer some of these client questions. If clients were given tips on how to live their aging lives planning for being healthy for the long haul with only a short unhealthy “end,” wouldn’t that address the goal?

So how does Dr. Landry suggest we Live Long and Die Short?

Here are his Ten Tips for Successful Aging:

  1. Use it or Lose it (Your Mind, Your Body, Your abilities)

  2. Keep Moving

  3. Challenge Your Mind

  4. Stay Connected (Stay Social)

  5. Lower Your Risks

  6. Never Act Your Age!

  7. Wherever You Are…Be There (Be Present)

  8. Find Your Purpose

  9. Have Children in Your Life

  10. Laugh!

The research suggests that lifestyle, more than genetics, determines how we age. Dr. Landry suggests that the time is now to assess your lifestyle to make the necessary changes to get healthy and change your future path. You, too, can find a way to live long and die short. Find a way to direct your own aging future…and work with your financial planner to make sure your financial future is planned accordingly.

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


This information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete. Any opinions are those of Sandra Adams and Dr. Roger Landry, and are not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James. Raymond James is not affiliated with nor does it endorse the services or opinions of Dr. Roger Landry.

Why You Should Have a Roadmap for Your Aging Years

I was asked to speak on a panel of professionals recently on the topic of “11th Hour Planning,” which is essentially planning steps that should be taken when a person nears the end-of-life. Much of the discussion revolved around the vast differences in the resulting situations when a client has planned ahead for their aging years versus when they have not. It was certainly the consensus of the professionals on the panel that those clients who plan in advance have a much more pleasant experience overall, their families are generally less stressed and panicked, and, more often, there are better financial results.

What, might you ask, is involved in “planning for your aging years?” I am referring to planning that goes beyond traditional retirement planning, where we are talking about cash flow projections and making sure your money will last as long (or longer) than you will. The financial aspect is an important piece, and as we discuss what I call the Roadmap for your Aging Years, the financial piece will focus largely on how to pay for funding during the later years of your retirement. We hope that those later years continue to be filled with travel, hobbies, and fun, but they could involve expenses focused on healthcare and long term care.

The Roadmap for your Aging Years covers the following topics:

  • Housing

  • Care (Where will you receive Care/Whowill Care for you)

  • Family

  • Legacy

  • Financials

Within the context of the above topics, you design your plan by exploring the Challenges you see yourself facing as you age, the Alternatives (i.e. solutions) you have for facing those challenges, the Resources you may have at your disposal for facing those challenges, and ultimately envisioning the Experience you would like to have as you age. We call this the C.A.R.E. planning method that was developed by Dan Taylor, author of The Parent Care Conversation. Ideally, you design your Roadmap with the guidance of a professional (your financial planner can help) and in collaboration with your family, so that everyone is on board and part of the plan from the beginning.

The 11th hour can come for any of us at any time, but for most of us comes later in life. Planning ahead can make end-of-life a less stressful experience if there is a plan in place.  If you do not yet have a Roadmap for Your Aging Years, contact your financial planner today to start the conversation.

Sandra Adams, CFP® , CeFT™ is a Partner and Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc.® Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.


The opinions expressed are those of Sandra Adams and are not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James. Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. and its advisors do not provide advice on tax or legal issues, these matters should be discussed with the appropriate professional. Raymond James is not affiliated with nor does it endorse Dan Taylor.