Why is 2020 So Significant to Boomers and Their Children?

 We’re not talking about 20/20 the news program, or about your vision.  We’re talking about the startling statistic released by the Alzheimer’s Association that by the year 2020, there will be 20 million baby boomers with Alzheimer’s disease.  In case you’re counting, that will be nearly 1 out of every 3 baby boomers that have Alzheimer’s or a related dementia.  The cost of care will be a huge concern for these boomers and their families (according to AARP, the current average cost to care for someone with Alzheimer’s is $56,800 annually), among the many issues that will arise.

If you are a boomer, here are the top 3 things you can do to prepare for this risk:

1. Put Together a Team of Professionals – Start with a Certified Financial Planner™, who can help you plan ahead for the financial risks.  This will involve simplifying accounts, managing your assets, and helping you plan for your financial future with your personal preferences in mind.  Your financial planner will help you to put together a team of the additional professionals you may need and will bring on additional team members, as needed, along the way.
2. Make Sure Your Legal Documents are Up-To-Date – We are talking here about your wills, possibly a trust, but most importantly Durable Powers of Attorney.  All individuals should have two durable powers of attorney – one for Health Care and the other for General/Financial affairs.  These Powers of Attorney will be invaluable if you ever need someone to make health care or financial decisions when you are unable to make them yourself. 
3. Get Your Financial Life in Order and Document – Not only is it a good practice to take inventory of what you have and where it is, but it is also (and equally) important to document these items and indicate where and who to contact if there are questions.  Documenting investment accounts, insurance policies, legal documents, former employer benefits, etc., will be invaluable to family members or close friends who may need to assist you with your financial affairs in the future.  Click Here for our Personal Record Keeping document that can serve as a guideline for this purpose.

While an Alzheimer’s diagnosis is not something any of us want to think about, it is better to plan ahead so that your financial life will be handled as you intend, rather than leaving the burden of making those decisions to your family when you might not be able to communicate your wishes. 

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.

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Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing information is accurate or complete.  Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.  You should discuss any tax or legal matters with the appropriate professional.

Parents and Children Misaligned on Finances

 As the mother of a teen and a pre-teen, I can testify that parents and children often speak different languages. Like when my daughter says "I'm going to die," it doesn't generally mean she's seriously ill; it more likely means she got a hole in her favorite pants! I live for the promise of the day when my children are grown and we will be able to communicate on the same plane.  After reading the recent Intra-Family Generations Study conducted by Fidelity Investments, I’m not so sure that will ever happen…at least when it comes to finances.

The Intra Family Generations Study found that parents and their adult children are on different pages when it comes to several key family financial issues, including retirement planning, inheritance planning, and caring for elderly parents.  The study found that 97% of parents and children surveyed disagreed on whether adult children will care for their elderly parents if they need long term care assistance.  Children tend to overestimate the value of their parents’ assets (by an average of $100,000 or more) and parents are overly critical of their children’s financial decisions.  In addition, while 24% of adult children surveyed say they will need to help their parents in retirement, 97% of parents say they won’t need help.  Clearly, there are misunderstandings between the generations.

So why, you might ask, are adult children and parents so disconnected?  According to the study, (which I can vouch for in my personal experience) families simply don’t talk about financial issues.  Talking about things like investments, debts, savings shortfalls, income taxes, or estate planning is taboo in many families. 

Most interestingly, the study did find that 60% of adult children and 68% of parents indicated that they would be more comfortable discussing these important financial issues with a third party financial professional than with each other.  Financial planners are the ideal financial professionals to lead productive family meetings.

If you find yourself as either a parent who has not discussed future financial issues with your adult children or as an adult child who has not discussed long term care or financial issues with your parent, contact your financial planner to schedule your family meeting today.

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012 and 2013, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.

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Five Star Award is based on advisor being credentialed as an investment advisory representative (IAR), a FINRA registered representative, a CPA or a licensed attorney, including education and professional designations, actively employed in the industry for five years, favorable regulatory and complaint history review, fulfillment of firm review based on internal firm standards, accepting new clients, one- and five-year client retention rates, non-institutional discretionary and/or non-discretionary client assets administered, number of client households served.

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Give a Gift to Your Family This Holiday Season: Document Your Five Wishes

 For most of us, referring to our “five wishes” during the holiday season means naming the top five items on our gift list or your five wishes for the coming New Year.  The five wishes I’m talking about here is something quite different, but in the end, much more valuable.

Five Wishes is a document that assists individuals and families discuss and document preferences for end of life care.  It is a personal living will that goes beyond the basics to give individuals the opportunity to express their wishes, and thus ease the burden of loved ones who may be left to make critical questions during stressful times.  The document, written by Aging with Dignity, is easily navigated to help communicate the following:

• Who do you want to make decisions about your care when you can’t?  
• What kind of care do you want and/or what kind of care would you refuse? 
• How do you want to be kept comfortable?
• How do you want people to treat you?
• What specific information do you want your family to know?

This document can be considered a legal document in Michigan and 41 other states if it is signed and witnessed*.  If you already have an up-to-date Patient Advocate/Health Care Durable Power of Attorney document in place, Five Wishes can still be valuable as a way to communicate your wishes for your end of life care to others. 

Consider using Five Wishes to structure your conversations this holiday season as you hold the family meeting I recommended in my recent post.  And while you’re at it, share you wishes for 2013 with your family, as well!

*Five Wishes meets the legal requirements for an advance directive in Michigan. Just like in 41 other states, you can use Five Wishes in Michigan to express how you want to be treated if you are seriously ill and unable to speak for yourself, using a document that is easy to understand. All you need to do is check a box, circle a direction, or write a few sentences. Once it is signed and witnessed, your Five Wishes is a legal document. Additionally, the state of Michigan requires your health care agent to sign a Patient Advocate Acceptance Form. The people you name in Wish 1 of Five Wishes must sign this form before they begin making decisions for you. This form is not included in Five Wishes because you are not required to complete the acceptance form at the same time. It is offered here as a helpful resource.  Five Wishes can be found at www.agingwithdignity.org.

Michigan Patient Advocate Acceptance Form

Sandra Adams, CFP® is a Lead Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. Sandy specializes in Elder Care Financial Planning and is a frequent speaker on related topics. In 2012, Sandy was named to the Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine. In addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she is regularly quoted in national media publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Research Magazine and Journal of Financial Planning.

November is National Caregivers Month

 November is a month of gratitude.  We celebrate Thanksgiving Day and express our appreciation for the good things in our life.  What better time to say an extra “thanks” to the caregivers in our lives?

According to the National Caregivers Association, over 65 million Americans – approximately 29% of the U.S. population – provide care for chronically ill, disabled or aged family members or friends during any given year.  Family caregivers provide an average of 20 hours of care per week.  Over 66% of these caregivers are women, and 37% also have children or grandchildren under the age of 18 living with them.  What, you might ask, does this have to do with financial planning?

The reality is that the value of the services provided by family caregivers in the U.S. is estimated to be upwards of $375 billion each year.  Most of these caregivers receive little to no compensation for the services they provide.  Providing caregiver services to friends and family can create a drain on family funds, as these caregivers must often leave their jobs or significantly reduce their hours.  This, in turn, drains savings and delays retirements.

Action steps can be taken to protect the financial well-being of these valuable caregivers:

• Have a family plan in place for providing care.  My recent blog on holding a family meeting is a good guide for starting this conversation. 
• Coordinate family resources.  This involves sharing responsibilities among family members (even those living at a distance) so that no one member is overburdened.
• Put financial resources in place to cover potential long term care expenses.  This includes purchasing long-term care insurance or alternative self-funding strategies so that care can be paid for (this includes providing possible compensation for family caregivers).

One of the best ways to say “thank you” to current or future caregivers in your life is to plan.  Contact your financial planner to provide assistance with family meetings, coordination of resources, or long-term care funding.

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The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete.  Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily of RJFS or Raymond James.

Year End Planning: Schedule a Family Meeting

 It’s hard to believe that in just a few short weeks, the holiday season will be upon us.  Family gatherings during the holidays are rare occasions when parents and siblings are in the same place at the same time.  While these gatherings are wonderful opportunities for casual conversations and reminiscing, why not use this time to have a productive family meeting?

It is important for families, no matter the ages of the family members, to have serious conversations about the legal and financial planning in place; or the planning that is not in place that needs to be.  Important points for discussion may be:

• Legal Documents – Do all family members over the age of 18 have their own Durable Powers of Attorney (POAs for Health Care and General Financial are needed)?  Do those assigned as POAs understand their potential responsibilities in their roles?  Are wills or trusts in place or needed?
• Financial Savings – Particularly for elder family members, are there financial resources and structures in place to fund potential long-term care needs in the future?  For younger family members, is there an opportunity to use year-end gifting to help fund education or retirement savings (i.e. ROTH IRAs)?
• Elder Care Planning – For family members who are aging, this meeting may be an opportunity to start conversations about future care.   Discussions regarding future housing and care needs, as well as a review of the older relative’s future challenges, alternatives and resources are important.  In particular, beginning to lay out future roles of family members is critical to the future success of this kind of planning.  For a list of questions that might be helpful in starting these conversations, click here.

As you look forward to the holiday season, plan for good food and family stories.  But also plan for important conversations that can affect your family’s legal and financial success.  By planning ahead for these conversations, family members can be prepared to contribute to the planning in a meaningful way.  For additional tips on holding these all-important family meetings, talk to your financial planner.

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Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.

Watch Out for Senior Financial Fraud

 Imagine you get a call from your grandmother.  She asks that you take her to the bank because the neighbor that usually takes her is busy, and she needs to get another certified check.  On the way to the bank, your grandmother shares that the lottery company promises that this is the final fee that needs to be paid for her award check to be issued – it has only cost her $1,000 and the award will be $100,000. “What!?!” 

This isn’t just a made-up story meant to scare you.  In fact, Susan Tompor of the Detroit Free Press wrote an article about this very topic recently in an article titled “Time to Look Out for Granparents’ Money”.   It is also consistent with the types of scams that the State of Michigan Offices for Services to the Aging are reporting and trying to combat.

In the Free Press article, Susan Tompor referenced a recent survey conducted by the Investor Protection Trust and the Investor Protection Institute that identified the top three areas of senior scams:

• Theft by family members – family members taking and cashing Social Security checks and/or misusing access to bank accounts.
• Theft by caregivers – similar to family fraud, but by trusted caregivers that are not family members.
• Financial scams involving strangers –
  • Scams can involve strangers pretending to be grandchildren in trouble in a foreign country requesting that money be wired to get them back to the U.S.;
  • Scams indicating that the senior has won a lottery, but needs to send a wire or check to cover processing fees; or
  • Scams requesting personal information (Social Security Numbers, etc.) to verify Medicare or other benefits (seniors providing the requested information can become victims of identity theft).

These scammers take advantage of the trust and good will of older adults.  If you are an older adult, a family member of an older adult, or professional that works with older adults, be aware of possible senior financial fraud.  Take steps to protect yourself or the older adults you know by:

• Protect your information, including Social Security Numbers, account numbers, etc.
• Verify the validity of anyone calling or contacting you asking for personal information and/or transfer of funds.
• Do your due diligence before hiring professionals to assist with providing of care or any other professional services.
• If fraud is suspected, contact the appropriate authorities:
  • Adult Protective Services Vulnerable Adult Helpline 1-800-996-6228
  • Senior Medicare Patrol 1-800-803-1714
  • State Office of Financial and Insurance Regulation 1-877-999-6442
  • OR your local police

If you have questions about this additional Elder Care Planning issues, contact me at Sandy.Adams@CenterFinPlan.com.

VA Aid & Attendance Benefits: Beware of Bad Advice

 Imagine this scenario:  You attend a presentation with your father at his assisted living facility.  The organization presenting is very official looking, with materials covered in flags and red, white and blue.  Although they are not the Veteran’s Services Organization or VA, they claim to be able to help all veteran’s get a monthly pension benefit from the VA, no matter what their financial situation.  They claim clients they work with have never been denied benefits.  Could this be true, or might there be a catch?

The U.S. government provides several benefits to military veterans as a way to honor them for their service.  One of the benefits that might be available to many veterans and their spouses in older age is the VA Aid & Attendance Benefit. 

• Not all veterans are eligible for this benefit, as it is dependent on time of service and medical and financial need.
•  This benefit provides a monthly pension to veterans and/or their spouses in older age when they begin to need assistance with activities of daily living. 
• The Aid & Attendance Benefit is also based on financial need – income versus ongoing medical related expenses and value of assets.  In general, anyone with asset in excess of $80,000 is not eligible (note that this asset number can be adjusted based on age and life expectancy).   *Source:  U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs

If a veteran qualifies within the income and assets requirements, applications can be filed with the Veteran’s Services Organization at no cost.  For veterans who might not be eligible for benefits without additional planning, organizations like those described above will offer to assist by re-registering and/or gifting assets and repositioning assets into insurance based products that generate high commissions to the “advisors” selling them and are not necessary to qualify for benefits. 

If you or someone you know is a veteran or spouse of a veteran who thinks they might benefit from the Aid & Attendance Pension Benefit, here are a few things to remember:

• If the veteran has limited income and assets, go directly to the Veteran’s Services Organization to apply for benefits.
• If you think you may need additional planning to qualify for benefits, seek out a Certified Elder Law Attorney who has been certified by the VA to counsel veterans.  A qualified Elder Law Attorney will counsel you based on the client’s needs now and in the future (i.e. future need for Medicaid benefits), and may recommend that the VA Aid & Attendance Benefit is not appropriate for all clients.
• Be aware of advisers who insist that the only way to qualify for benefits is to shift assets to an Irrevocable Trust and fund the trust with insurance based products (be especially aware if the recommendation is to buy multiple, smaller insurance products – as this may not be a suitable option and the advisors may only be trying to maximize their commissions).  The real truth is that if the trust is appropriate, it may not be necessary for it to be funded with insurance products that might have high commissions and might have surrender charges not appropriate for an older adult.

I don’t know about you, but whenever I think about U.S. military veterans, I think of respect, service and gratitude.  The best way to honor our military veterans is to provide them with the most suitable advice for their situation. Not bad advice that will cost them money. If you are a veteran or know one who might be eligible for the Aid & Attendance Benefit, make certain that the appropriate professionals are consulted. 

Watch for my upcoming post on additional Elder Financial Fraud scams.  Contact me at Sandy.Adams@CenterFinPlan.com if you have additional questions about any elder care related topics.

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When is it Time to Downsize?

 If I give away some of my stuff, am I giving away a part of me?  Does it make “me” less? 

That was the question posed by Dr. Cathy Lysack, PhD, an occupational therapist and the Deputy Director of the Institute of Gerontology at Wayne State. She asked the audience at The Center’s recent educational workshop about downsizing and mobility for thoughts about giving away “stuff”.  This topic can be troublesome, not only for seniors, but their adult children as well.  What’s unique about late life downsizing versus any other move?  According to Dr. Lysack, it’s when downsizing occurs in a compressed time period and is often initiated by health issues.

So when is the right time to move?

The answer to that is not the same for everyone but there are important clues.  The most common is that your body says it’s time.  It becomes obvious when your current living situation, environment, or health simply become too much to handle. Depending on your stage in life, you may also desire to be closer to family or to live in a more fulfilling community.

When the final decision to downsize has been made, there are many emotional decisions that remain.   What should you keep? What must go?   Dr. Lysack said, “We tend to keep things that give us pleasure, have monetary value, or are things we have attached a special memory to.”  Throughout the process we wonder if, by giving these items away, we are going to be giving away a part of ourselves.

Here are three key questions to consider when faced with these tough choices:

• Does it fit in the space I am moving to?
• Does it mean something to me?
• Do I really need it?

Dr. Lysack concluded the presentation with the following thoughts, “There are many different ways to downsize and that the process is more than packing boxes and moving.  Older adults dislike change (like the rest of us), but they are experienced with life, resilient and adaptable. Many show considerable creativity in making decisions about what to keep, sell, donate or gift.

The Center for Financial Planning recognizes first-hand the challenges many aging clients and their families experience moving into later stages in life.   We remain committed to providing well-informed and compassionate advice to those faced with these very emotional decisions.   Please do not hesitate to contact our office if you would like additional information.   

Planning for Elder Care? I’ve Found a Great Resource

 I am in school again.  This time not because I have to or need to, but because I want to.  In my quest to have greater knowledge about the aging process and elder care issues, I recently did a class project to find recources for caregivers and families. My search uncovered a great resource that was new to me – Joy Loverde’s “The Complete Eldercare Planner”. 

Our population is approaching the biggest shift in U.S. history.  By 2030, those Americans 65+ will make up over 20% of the U.S. population.  Even more surprising, in less than 50 years, there will be as many Americans aged 80 and older as there are now people over 65.(Source: Fidelity Research) 

This population shift is putting more and more Americans in the position of caring for aging parents at the same time they are raising their own children.  Without the proper resources, the task of caring for parents can be overwhelming, putting the health and sanity of caregivers and their families at risk.

In her book, “The Complete Eldercare Planner,” Joy Loverde, a well-known consultant in the senior industry for over thirty years, provides valuable insight for caregivers who need to plan and manage eldercare issues.  Particularly helpful are the low-cost and no-cost resources and checklists provided to guide caregivers through the following areas: 

• Effective Overall Planning
• Creating a Care Team
• Care for the Caregiver
• Communication
• Emergency Preparedness
• Money Matters
• Legal Matters
• Insurance
• Housing
• Safety Issues
• Transportation and Mobility
• Managing Medical Care
• Quality of Life
• Death and Dying
• Financial Organization/Document Location

I fell in love with the book when I read the author’s opening message, “Caregiving may be the hardest family responsibility you’ll ever take on. It unquestionably affects our every waking moment – at home, in the workplace, where and how we live, and how we cope.  If eldercare has chosen you, I will be with you every step of the way. Every page, every sentence, and every word in this book contain my personal messages to you, and I have the utmost respect for your decision to accept this role as caregiver.”

”The Complete Eldercare Planner” is easy-to-use. The checklists and resource lists are simple and are likely to be used over and over during the process of caring for an elder family member. 

For additional resources and/or answers to questions regarding Elder Care financial planning, contact me at sandy.adams@centerfinplan.com.

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This information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete. Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.  Joy Loverde is not affiliated with Raymond James.

The Perfect Recipe for a Balanced Life for the Sandwich Generation

 I think I’m like many Americans that struggle to find personal time amongst the chaos of working full time, raising two children, balancing family relationships, and other obligations (school, church, volunteer work, etc.).  And I am not even one of the many Americans between the ages of 40 and 60 who are raising children AND assisting aging parents.  If I have trouble finding time to balance my life with only one family to raise, how can these members of the “Sandwich Generation” do it?

I had a client of mine explain it this way, “You have to run your family like a business, that’s the bottom line.”  While there are certainly feelings and emotions that complicate the dynamics of these family situations, there has to be a way to get things done without sacrificing all of your time, your relationships, or your sanity. 

Here are 3 ways to managing your multi-tiered family like a business:

1. Plan Strategically – The key here is to have a plan; to be proactive rather than reactive.  Know what has to be done, when it needs to be done, and how it will be paid for.   This includes creating master calendars for who needs to be where and arranging transportation).
2. Manage Resources – Make sure you have the tools in place to make things happen (legal documents, financial resources, and human resources).  If you don’t have the pieces in place to make things happen when the time comes, you end up in crisis mode.  This involves making sure legal documents like durable powers of attorney are in place and arranging for help that is either paid or volunteer for things like care assistance, bill paying, etc.
3. Departmentalize – You are the manager of the family business, which means you oversee but do not need to perform every task.  Make sure that the right people are handling the right tasks, and that everyone is doing their part.  This means involving all family members to do their share (including adult siblings) and hiring the right professionals to handle the duties that are outside your area of expertise (Geriatric Care Managers, Elder Law Attorneys, Financial Planners, etc.).

Before trying to handle every duty that comes managing a multi-tiered family, consider viewing your family like a business.  Doing so will ensure that everyone is served best, and will provide you time to maintain a balanced and quality life.

Please feel free to contact me for additional tips on establishing and managing your family business.

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The information contained in this report does not purport to be a complete description of the securities, markets, or developments referred to in this material.  The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete.  Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.